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Nov 20, 2022 10:26:10   #
plumbob Loc: New Windsor Maryland
 
smitty wrote:
is the term 'polite discourse' an oxymoron [ie. jumbo shrimp]
be nice; ya catch more flies w honey than vinegar


Right up there with agree to disagree. Just think back to those high school days when we were taught how to debate an issue. College days seemed to radicalizing debating and a good back and forth seems to be a lost art.

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Nov 20, 2022 15:10:23   #
DC Loc: Washington state
 
Sinker Rig wrote:
I like the "I'm not perfect(yet) comment.....I connect with that. I don't fully understand what I read on this forum, so far I have preliminary visions that if one doesn't follow the narrative and has an opposing view they are not welcome


not sure what you mean Sinker. if the opposing view is communicated in a non attack way I think the one posting it is welcome here that doesn't mean their view will be agreed with or not challenged. you and I have disagreed over issues but I always welcome your input. I actually enjoy the back and forth with someone I disagree with as long as it is issue based and not personal attacks which I think was the point being made here. we can disagree, and debate but still be civil and respectful. life would be a bit boring if we all agreed on every thing

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Nov 20, 2022 18:58:53   #
Whitey Loc: Southeast ohio
 
DC wrote:
not sure what you mean Sinker. if the opposing view is communicated in a non attack way I think the one posting it is welcome here that doesn't mean their view will be agreed with or not challenged. you and I have disagreed over issues but I always welcome your input. I actually enjoy the back and forth with someone I disagree with as long as it is issue based and not personal attacks which I think was the point being made here. we can disagree, and debate but still be civil and respectful. life would be a bit boring if we all agreed on every thing
not sure what you mean Sinker. if the opposing vi... (show quote)


Very well said πŸ‘

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Nov 21, 2022 09:00:16   #
Steelhead Mickey Loc: NJ
 
We are divided on so many issues (now that's an understatement). Social media formats, including FS, is a microcosm of our world & permit these divisions to widen, leading to a revolving door of censorship & cancellation by those who "hold the power" at the moment.

True discourse of opinions without one side getting offended is unfortunately rare and can be full of unseen potholes. Adding courtesy & respect to the conversation is a way to map out this journey, without (road)rage by steering clear of known roadblocks & pave a smoother road to a positive destination. Sometimes you'll have to bite your tongue & take a detour to get where you want to go.

Mickey's advice? Open one's eyes & ears, take a breath, pause and pray before reacting, then become part of the solution - easy to say, hard to do. Be thankful for the ability to acknowledge differing views (we never really know where one is truly coming from), our life experiences are as different as a salmon and a bluegill.

This Thanksgiving, Mickey is going to lighten up, find some humor in every situation and realize you are not going to win every battle - life is too short - our (mental & physical) health will thank us.

Here's a smile for those with differing views - even Dan & Jane shook hands after this spirited debate!

Enjoy:

https://youtu.be/c91XUyg9iWM

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Nov 21, 2022 10:27:28   #
DC Loc: Washington state
 
Steelhead Mickey wrote:
We are divided on so many issues (now that's an understatement). Social media formats, including FS, is a microcosm of our world & permit these divisions to widen, leading to a revolving door of censorship & cancellation by those who "hold the power" at the moment.

True discourse of opinions without one side getting offended is unfortunately rare and can be full of unseen potholes. Adding courtesy & respect to the conversation is a way to map out this journey, without (road)rage by steering clear of known roadblocks & pave a smoother road to a positive destination. Sometimes you'll have to bite your tongue & take a detour to get where you want to go.

Mickey's advice? Open one's eyes & ears, take a breath, pause and pray before reacting, then become part of the solution - easy to say, hard to do. Be thankful for the ability to acknowledge differing views (we never really know where one is truly coming from), our life experiences are as different as a salmon and a bluegill.

This Thanksgiving, Mickey is going to lighten up, find some humor in every situation and realize you are not going to win every battle - life is too short - our (mental & physical) health will thank us.

Here's a smile for those with differing views - even Dan & Jane shook hands after this spirited debate!

Enjoy:

https://youtu.be/c91XUyg9iWM
We are divided on so many issues (now that's an un... (show quote)


well said I would just add honest and civil discussions can often help heal the division by making us aware that often we agree more than we think we do even on issues that decide us so deeply

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Nov 22, 2022 10:53:55   #
smitty Loc: maine
 
the good old days of snl

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Nov 24, 2022 15:01:45   #
bapabear Loc: Blaine, Washington
 
DC wrote:
not sure what you mean Sinker. if the opposing view is communicated in a non attack way I think the one posting it is welcome here that doesn't mean their view will be agreed with or not challenged. you and I have disagreed over issues but I always welcome your input. I actually enjoy the back and forth with someone I disagree with as long as it is issue based and not personal attacks which I think was the point being made here. we can disagree, and debate but still be civil and respectful. life would be a bit boring if we all agreed on every thing
not sure what you mean Sinker. if the opposing vi... (show quote)


I have to agree, but I think I could personally use some real boredom for a while in these times.

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Nov 25, 2022 10:33:37   #
smitty Loc: maine
 
plumbob wrote:
Right up there with agree to disagree. Just think back to those high school days when we were taught how to debate an issue. College days seemed to radicalizing debating and a good back and forth seems to be a lost art.


sad but true plum

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Nov 26, 2022 21:30:20   #
Jarheadfishnfool Loc: Woodlake/Tulare ,Ca.
 
Well ,none of you never has to worry about Sinker Rig anymore,, your mission was accomplished, god bless you all,,πŸ™

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Nov 26, 2022 22:03:33   #
nutz4fish Loc: Colchester, CT
 
Jarheadfishnfool wrote:
Well ,none of you never has to worry about Sinker Rig anymore,, your mission was accomplished, god bless you all,,πŸ™



Jar... what happened, did I miss something?

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Nov 26, 2022 22:20:02   #
Jarheadfishnfool Loc: Woodlake/Tulare ,Ca.
 
nutz4fish wrote:
Jar... what happened, did I miss something?


I'm a Die Hard Marine, always have been always will be, I don't like people singled out on the Stage, I will stick with my instincts and not roll with the tide, yea he was banned from the Stage,

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Nov 26, 2022 22:21:58   #
Jarheadfishnfool Loc: Woodlake/Tulare ,Ca.
 
Jarheadfishnfool wrote:
I'm a Die Hard Marine, always have been always will be, I don't like people singled out on the Stage, I will stick with my instincts and not roll with the tide, yea he was banned from the Stage,


He's a Viet Nam Vet, Like my Brother.

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Nov 26, 2022 22:36:31   #
Jarheadfishnfool Loc: Woodlake/Tulare ,Ca.
 
Steelhead Mickey wrote:
We are divided on so many issues (now that's an understatement). Social media formats, including FS, is a microcosm of our world & permit these divisions to widen, leading to a revolving door of censorship & cancellation by those who "hold the power" at the moment.

True discourse of opinions without one side getting offended is unfortunately rare and can be full of unseen potholes. Adding courtesy & respect to the conversation is a way to map out this journey, without (road)rage by steering clear of known roadblocks & pave a smoother road to a positive destination. Sometimes you'll have to bite your tongue & take a detour to get where you want to go.

Mickey's advice? Open one's eyes & ears, take a breath, pause and pray before reacting, then become part of the solution - easy to say, hard to do. Be thankful for the ability to acknowledge differing views (we never really know where one is truly coming from), our life experiences are as different as a salmon and a bluegill.

This Thanksgiving, Mickey is going to lighten up, find some humor in every situation and realize you are not going to win every battle - life is too short - our (mental & physical) health will thank us.

Here's a smile for those with differing views - even Dan & Jane shook hands after this spirited debate!

Enjoy:

https://youtu.be/c91XUyg9iWM
We are divided on so many issues (now that's an un... (show quote)


Very good view of these times and places Steelhead , nothing will ever be solved here in the attic, just individual opinions ,nothing else,,

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Nov 27, 2022 04:52:58   #
Graywulff Loc: Cortez,Co.
 
Jarheadfishnfool wrote:
Well ,none of you never has to worry about Sinker Rig anymore,, your mission was accomplished, god bless you all,,πŸ™
Jar, in the 3 1/2 years I’ve been part of this forum no one has ever set out to have anyone else removed. There have been people whom admin has blocked but to my knowledge admin is solely responsible for those decisions. It’s his website.

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Nov 27, 2022 11:43:54   #
nutz4fish Loc: Colchester, CT
 
Jarheadfishnfool wrote:
I'm a Die Hard Marine, always have been always will be, I don't like people singled out on the Stage, I will stick with my instincts and not roll with the tide, yea he was banned from the Stage,


Well, we had our differences, and areas of agreement as well, and I regret any part I may have had in his banishment, if any. Something may have happened behind the scenes that we know nothing of. I never saw this coming, did anyone ?

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