FixorFish wrote:
Obviously I am in the minority here.
Twice married, twice divorced, (one for 16 yrs, one for 10 yrs) don't miss either one.
They did NOT "complete me", they bullied their way with most of the important decisions (which house or vehicle to buy, where & when to vacation, etc.), spent MY money freely.... while occasionally hiding their own income, "decorated" the house to THEIR liking, ignoring the fact that I am A.S.I.D. certified as an interior designer (!) and built every wooden piece of furniture their little hearts desired.
Y'all just made better picks than me, it seems. Good on 'ya.
God, I wish I had a way to get back that 26 years (and the ~$750k in the 2 houses they got in the divorce settlements !).... the last nearly 15 years has been SO PEACEFUL, SO DRAMA-FREE AND THUS...CAREFREE*.......and hell, I shop, cook, and clean better than either one ever did in practice, or knew how to !
Hindsight IS truly 20/20....and we ain't talking about the year !
*And I eventually recovered enough to finally retire 3 yrs ago and buy that fast little rag-top sports car and all the boats and fishing gear I have room for !
No wife, very happy life !
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Sorry you lost two houses...MAYBE THERE'S A REASON WHY SOME MEN REFER TO THEM AS HOUSE-KEEPERS.