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Oct 7, 2021 19:28:20   #
Catfish hunter Loc: Riggins idaho (Paradise)
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
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Away time is a good thing Ronnie. It only hurts so much because there was lots of love there. That’s a good thing too. Time will ease the pain but the love you had for her will not diminish. Very little time has passed and the hurt is still outweighing the wonderful memories to come. She will be in your heart for ever. I sure hope you can get attached to all the good memories she left for you and try to understand she is with you all the time now. I swear that if you listen very closely you will feel her presence, see her vividly and feel her touch. She’s still with you Ronnie. We’re all still thinking of you and will be here with open ears any time you need us. I’ve never lost a spouse but I’ve lost family members who were very dear to me. Some of them many years ago and I’ve figured out how to hear them. Just listen buddy. Just listen😉

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Oct 8, 2021 09:56:36   #
OldBassGuy Loc: Temecula, CA
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


Prayers are with you my friend. Quite a few widowers on here, my heart goes out to all of you. I have been fortunate so far, and still have my wonderful wife of 54 years. Can't imagine life with our her.

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Oct 8, 2021 10:17:20   #
workaholic Loc: Pittsburg, ca
 
That is true love. I lost my wife in 2014 charismas day after 21 years. everyone has there own way of dealing with the loss. it is hard at times. You will think of her everyday and out of no where you will have tears in your eyes. my wife loved feathers so every time I see a feather i know she is at my side. Find something that you know is from her and it will put a smile on your face knowing that she is rig there.

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Oct 8, 2021 10:53:30   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
workaholic wrote:
That is true love. I lost my wife in 2014 charismas day after 21 years. everyone has there own way of dealing with the loss. it is hard at times. You will think of her everyday and out of no where you will have tears in your eyes. my wife loved feathers so every time I see a feather i know she is at my side. Find something that you know is from her and it will put a smile on your face knowing that she is rig there.


That's beautiful.

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Oct 8, 2021 13:33:13   #
Justoldjim Loc: JUNCTION CITY, OR.
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


I understand your feelings I lost my wife to a stroke Nov 27 2017 and still some things come up that brings on the tears we were married 59 years

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Oct 9, 2021 01:17:18   #
Dakoda Loc: Cle Elum, WA
 
Hang in there Ronnie. Working on your boat was a good project. Thank you for all you’ve given us on the forum.

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