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Oct 7, 2021 08:20:53   #
Ronniejw Loc: West Point MS
 
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.

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Oct 7, 2021 08:30:53   #
EZ Fishing Loc: College Ward, Utah
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


I know some of the things you're going thru. I lost my wife in 2004 I still miss her and always will. Everyone's mourning is different. Prayers are with you hoping that things will get better.

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Oct 7, 2021 08:49:04   #
depwarden Loc: Allentown, Pa.
 
God bless you. I feel your pain. Lost my wife in 2014 and I miss her still. It may get easier but it’ll never go away. Try to concentrate on all your good memories with her. Those times helped ease my pain. Again, God bless you and never be afraid to reach out!

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Oct 7, 2021 09:14:46   #
Slimshady Loc: Central Pennsylvania
 
Ronnie,just know you are in our prayers every day and if there is anything we can do please let us know even if it’s just to vent

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Oct 7, 2021 09:15:46   #
Whitey Loc: Southeast ohio
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


I'm sure that is tough Ronnie seeing everything in the house that keeps reminding you of her. Stay strong my friend an get that boat fixed up an get back on the water that might help ease your pain a little 👍

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Oct 7, 2021 09:23:58   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


Did you get the boat in the water yesterday?

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Oct 7, 2021 09:32:57   #
Ronniejw Loc: West Point MS
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Did you get the boat in the water yesterday?


Yes, trouble was the intakes for the live tank and pump had frayed hoses and started filling with water. Gave it a quick run then retrieved to drain it out. Easy fix for next time

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Oct 7, 2021 09:38:43   #
flyguy Loc: Lake Onalaska, Sunfish Capitol of the World!
 
Ronniejw wrote:
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's passing, not easy being in the home she wanted so much. I'm still at a loss of what to do. I am at a better place with my acceptance that she is with her god she loved so much. The memories of our good times and things we saw for the first time together are vivid in my mind. She is in my heart for always.
I still have tears at times, something that I can't hold back. Where life leads me now I don't know, just taking each day as it comes.
I will be away for a couple of weeks after Monday will check in occasionally, need to get away from here for a time.
It's been over two and a half months since Dora's ... (show quote)


We completely understand, my friend. Do whatever it takes to ease yourself through the pain. We are family here, and we are here to help. Prayers are on the way for you and Dora. Good luck, Ronnie.

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Oct 7, 2021 09:47:47   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
Ronniejw wrote:
Yes, trouble was the intakes for the live tank and pump had frayed hoses and started filling with water. Gave it a quick run then retrieved to drain it out. Easy fix for next time


Glad it wasn't too bad!

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Oct 7, 2021 09:48:08   #
Gordon Loc: Charleston South Carolina
 
Try to enjoy your time away. And don't put a tine limit on it. Take all the time you need. We'll be looking forward to your return.

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Oct 7, 2021 12:58:03   #
Betts Loc: Finger Lakes NY
 
Ronnie, I’m so sorry. I hope you find some bright spots in the days ahead. May the memory of your wife be a blessing. ❤️

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Oct 7, 2021 13:18:43   #
OJdidit Loc: Oak Creek Wisconsin
 
Ronnie, please know you are not alone and take all the time you need!

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Oct 7, 2021 13:43:22   #
mistred64 Loc: Grayslake, illinois
 
You have a good group of friends here Ronnie. You're not alone. On the 22nd we're burying my sister's husbands ashes.

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Oct 7, 2021 14:55:04   #
flyguy Loc: Lake Onalaska, Sunfish Capitol of the World!
 
mistred64 wrote:
You have a good group of friends here Ronnie. You're not alone. On the 22nd we're burying my sister's husbands ashes.


You have my condolences, mistred. So sorry.

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Oct 7, 2021 15:50:28   #
mistred64 Loc: Grayslake, illinois
 
flyguy wrote:
You have my condolences, mistred. So sorry.


Thank you

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