Bcmech1 Loc: Clinton Wisconsin

Pam, I just found this on line and thought of you. Hope it makes you smile.

Pam Dee Loc: Seabrook TX

Aawwwww, that's precious! This photo I took a couple years ago...isn't He always reminding us!

Erwin Loc: Phoenix Arizona

Prayers to you , and condolences 💐

Bigbum Loc: Washington

You're sharing what many of us have felt. We know deep down what's coming when we bring them into our lives. But we live in denial because of the joy and absolute love and devotion these fur kids give us. It is heartbreaking looking into their eyes knowing the clock is ticking, but also knowing how much they enhance our lives in the present makes it worth it. It balances out- the companionship and joy they bring us, then the price paid grieving. Embrace your grief as homage to the life well lived in your company. The pain you feel just substantiates the wonderful things you shared in that time frame.

You will fish again. You'll know when it's time.

Take care

FishingWisconsin33 Loc: Edgarton WI

Grief can steal so much joy that we experience. Try to find a quiet area alone, away from others. Try just some casting practice. I know when I was grieving going fishing and casting as hard as I could over and over helped me and tired me out. This helped me a lot. Good luck to you on your journey. It will get better but it takes time. I also went fishing in Sitka Alaska and that really helped me get out of my depression.

Steve smith Loc: Cambridge Maryland

Hi Pam
I feel your pain i have my k-9 buddy laying behind me on my chair as I write this she is 9 and just threw out her back took her to my chiropractor and he helped her tremendously she is with me every where I go I wanted to retire and enjoy my time with my dog who has been beside since she was 11 weeks old. You sound like you gave your best companion a good life and I am sure she was more worried about leaving you and who going to take care of you and for your K-9 you need to take care of yourself. Someday I will be writing to vent when my best friend is gone thsnk you so much for sharing God bless

CoDen Loc: Little R, SC

After I lost my dog Minde (rescue dog part Beagle) I didn’t want another. Had dogs most of my life. They are family. I miss all the dogs I’ve had. At 75, and house is on stilts I really don’t want another dog. I watch my Ex wife’s dog (Clover)when needed. Had her now for two months, taking her back to Tennessee tomorrow. Clover such a good dog.Clover has made friends with People and other dogs here. I’d like to keep her but wouldn’t be right to keep her, it’s ex’s dog and she loves her too. I’ll miss her after taking her back to Tennessee.

Pam Dee Loc: Seabrook TX

I hear you. I'm already considering a year old pup in a local shelter for another companion. I will bring her with me as much as I did Annah...if Annah wasn't welcomed somewhere, I most times didn't go. It's just the way I am when trying to be as committed to them as they are to me. My family tested me on that resolve and quickly understood that it is what it is. They graciously accommodated my wishes and with kind hearts. (I don't even want to know the gibbers behind my back)! 😁 Yet, I understand that if I outlive another...it'll be painful...thus my favorite saying, it is what it is...and most times it means adapting w/positive attitude! Everyone on this forum that has shared with me has truly helped me this far...and I'm usually the tough bird that works thru things on my own! Thank You, and it's a Blessing that you have Minde to luv on if even tho it's for shorter times.

Catfish Dave Loc: Augusta Georgia

Pam,God bless you.

Pam Dee Loc: Seabrook TX

Correction: you have Clover for short periods...Minde forever in your heart❣️🤷

Grizzly 17 Loc: South central Pa

[quote=Pam Dee]I hear you. I'm already considering a year old pup in a local shelter for another companion. I will bring her with me as much as I did Annah...if Annah wasn't welcomed somewhere, I most times didn't go. It's just the way I am when trying to be as committed to them as they are to me. My family tested me on that resolve and quickly understood that it is what it is. They graciously accommodated my wishes and with kind hearts. (I don't even want to know the gibbers behind my back)! 😁 Yet, I understand that if I outlive another...it'll be painful...thus my favorite saying, it is what it is...and most times it means adapting w/positive attitude! Everyone on this forum that has shared with me has truly helped me this far...and I'm usually the tough bird that works thru things on my own! Thank You, and it's a Blessing that you have Minde to luv on if even tho it's for shorter

Pam the pup needs you as much as you need her.

Miss Pam you fit into this family of pet lovers just fine.

You me n plenty of others though we could muscle thru.
Here we don't need to.

Life is adapt n over come.
If we don't we fall into the black hole alone.

The sun will shine again n your heart will find a place for the new pup.

Have a nice evening 👍😊

ShortorderCook62 Loc: Grand Junction, Colorado

Great quote Chief. Been there done that. Keep on keeping on.

ShortorderCook62 Loc: Grand Junction, Colorado

Miss Pam, you are in the right place and we all appreciate and respect your pain. Ad you see many of us have walked your path and understand. I lost my best friend Sprinkles on August 19, 2022. She was with me 10 years of her ten years and three months. Even though I found a new best friend on Oct 27th, 2022 I still tear up when I see her picture in my office/man cave. You can't buy that kind of devotion and loyalty. My new best friend Lady came to a shelter here in Grand Junction, Co pregnant from an Arizona Indian Reservation in March of 2022. When the pups were weened and adopted out she was spayed on Oct 26th and I got her on the 27th. She follows me everywhere. I feel that cold nose on the back of my knee and I know she's there. Vet thinks she is Golden/Brittany cross. Looks exactly like a golden but short. Right now I'm in my recliner and she's sleeping behind me as I can hear her snoring. At 79 I hope I don't out live her. My son says she will always have a home with him. But if she leaves before me then I will put her ashes on top of the dresser with Sprinkles and honor her for the love she has shown me. As many on the Stage have shared, it never gets easier but love them while we can and honor them for the love and devotion they have given us. God Bless you and you will fish again when the time is right.

Randy

Pam Dee Loc: Seabrook TX

Thank you❣️ I also live with your thoughts, and sentiments on these Highly Devoted/Loyal pup partners ...and yes, I think my next walk to the bay will be with a new friend. I'm seeing at least 2 in local shelters that just have that "look" and connecting. You are so right, the heartache stays, yet at a level of reality that allows for the ability to move on and love another. ❤️ I Thank every person that has shared their own story with me. It does help one to not feel so alone in it. You guys continue to enjoy each other!

ShortorderCook62 Loc: Grand Junction, Colorado

Thanks Miss Pam.