Just don't tell them you are going is my answer, too. But that might be hard if they are neighbors with line-site to (you readying) your boat, co-workers or family. Especially since you, like I do, love to be on the water all by myself. I have great fishing buddies I love and respect and whom make sure to help out with costs and cleanup. When I don't tell them I'm going fishing they are not mad. They know and respect that I love being out there by myself.

I like the honesty answer, too. At the same time, I believe if these guys would understand a honest, quick, kind talk-about-it, the chat wouldn't need to be held in the first place.

Second thought: If they drink too much that is not helping things. Prohibit booze if you're still going to take them. Then see how many still want to go fishing with "you" and not fishing with "beer."