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Sep 13, 2023 08:37:24   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
Hmmm



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Sep 13, 2023 09:36:13   #
Gordon Loc: Charleston South Carolina
 
Ouch. That hurts

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Sep 13, 2023 10:47:29   #
smitty Loc: maine
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Hmmm


you ok kandie?

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Sep 13, 2023 11:31:40   #
plumbob Loc: New Windsor Maryland
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Hmmm


Might just be some of that going on in the next few days. Lee is on the move.

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Sep 13, 2023 12:20:15   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
smitty wrote:
you ok kandie?


Having some age discrimination problems where I teach. Brought in young oboe and bassoon teachers, which we needed, but now I see in a program of concerts in November that this "New Faculty Wind Quintet" has a horn player that is not me. I am the only horn teacher at the school, so "Hmmmm".
Have a meeting about it this afternoon with one of the directors. See what the heck is going on.
Thanks for asking

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Sep 13, 2023 12:53:25   #
Robert J Samples Loc: Round Rock, Texas
 
Stand your ground! Blow your horn! Just Sayin...RJS

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Sep 13, 2023 13:42:46   #
Barnacles Loc: Northern California
 
Seems to me that giving the boat that name was just tempting fate.

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Sep 13, 2023 20:12:47   #
mistred64 Loc: Grayslake, illinois
 
Robert said it best!

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Sep 13, 2023 23:04:44   #
Gmchief Loc: New Hampshire coast
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Having some age discrimination problems where I teach. Brought in young oboe and bassoon teachers, which we needed, but now I see in a program of concerts in November that this "New Faculty Wind Quintet" has a horn player that is not me. I am the only horn teacher at the school, so "Hmmmm".
Have a meeting about it this afternoon with one of the directors. See what the heck is going on.
Thanks for asking
Having some age discrimination problems where I te... (show quote)


🙏 Keep us posted please.

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Sep 15, 2023 10:55:16   #
Scudrnr Loc: Hancock, Wisconsin
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Hmmm


There are days like that.

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Sep 16, 2023 09:51:51   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
Barnacles wrote:
Seems to me that giving the boat that name was just tempting fate.



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Sep 16, 2023 10:00:53   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
So, when they hired the new guys, bassoon and oboe, seems they already had a quintet with the flute from a "sister school" part of Wharton Institute. Woman in charge of all schools OK'd them coming to play some concerts in order to generate more students for the woodwinds. I am not happy with them doing this behind my back and I probably could file age discrimination charges but the woman who books the concerts said she would arrange for any group I had to have as many, if not more opportunities to play [and get paid $200 each] so I've decided to ride it out. How I speak to the new players when I see them teaching is yet to be settled. Don't want problems but what they did was really sneaky and I think downright mean, inconsiderate and thoughtless. But then, they're in their 20s so not suprised. Self serving.

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Sep 16, 2023 10:23:10   #
Gmchief Loc: New Hampshire coast
 
kandydisbar wrote:
So, when they hired the new guys, bassoon and oboe, seems they already had a quintet with the flute from a "sister school" part of Wharton Institute. Woman in charge of all schools OK'd them coming to play some concerts in order to generate more students for the woodwinds. I am not happy with them doing this behind my back and I probably could file age discrimination charges but the woman who books the concerts said she would arrange for any group I had to have as many, if not more opportunities to play [and get paid $200 each] so I've decided to ride it out. How I speak to the new players when I see them teaching is yet to be settled. Don't want problems but what they did was really sneaky and I think downright mean, inconsiderate and thoughtless. But then, they're in their 20s so not suprised. Self serving.
So, when they hired the new guys, bassoon and oboe... (show quote)


Thanks for the update. Kids (anyone younger than 30) have been indoctrinated with a sense of entitlement. I’m not sure they are intentionally mean, but just clueless how they come across.

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Sep 16, 2023 11:38:28   #
kandydisbar Loc: West Orange, NJ
 
Gmchief wrote:
Thanks for the update. Kids (anyone younger than 30) have been indoctrinated with a sense of entitlement. I’m not sure they are intentionally mean, but just clueless how they come across.


Yes, that's probably the case but Admin didn't have to just go along with them. Why didn't she think about how it would make me feel. Very upsetting in a school where she's always talking up adversity.

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Sep 16, 2023 13:56:45   #
Gmchief Loc: New Hampshire coast
 
kandydisbar wrote:
Yes, that's probably the case but Admin didn't have to just go along with them. Why didn't she think about how it would make me feel. Very upsetting in a school where she's always talking up adversity.


I assume you mean diversity? Sounds like she’s doing well with the adversity!😊. Leaders today are afraid to lead. They are afraid of offending someone. I know. It’s hard to keep from being discouraged. But we all have your back.

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