Graywulff wrote:
" The ultimate touchstone of friendship is not improvement, neither of the other nor of the self, the ultimate touchstone is witness, the privilege of having been seen by someone and the equal privilege of having been granted the sight of the essence of another, to have walked with them and to have believed in them, and sometimes just to have accompanied them for however brief a span, on a journey impossible to accomplish alone." from FRIENDSHIP by David Whyte.
Sometimes a small change in perspective can open great new avenues for personal growth. Just sayin'