BadFisherman Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas

The following is from Dr. Criswell Freeman's book 'Fathers Are Forever.'

"Think...pause...then speak: How wise is the father who can communicate in this way? But all too often, in the rush to have themselves heard, fathers may speak first and think later...with unfortunate results.

If we seek to be a source of encouragement to our children, we must measure our words carefully. Words, especially those spoken by a parent, have the power to hurt or to heal. Our words can uplift our children or discourage them. And, of course, if our words are reckless or spoken in haste, they cannot be erased.

As a loving father, your challenge is clear: You must choose words that encourage and empower your children. You must speak wisely, not impulsively. You must employ words of kindness and praise, not words of anger or derision. When you do, you will lift up your children today, and, more importantly, you will give them the confidence they need to lift themselves up tomorrow."

Admittedly, during earlier years as a parent, I could have done better in following Dr. Criswell's wisdom. Fortunately, my now adult children overcame any parental shortcomings. My efforts continue, and I strive in my attempts to improve for both them and our grandchildren.

Huntm22 Loc: Northern Utah. - West Haven

Yes sir. Wish I could have lived my younger years that way. It was always speak my mind and tell it how it was. Wish it would have been ‘bite my tongue a lot of times’ as I look back now. Trying to make sure I bite with the grandkids and great grandkids. Why is that so much easier now days??

DC Loc: Washington state

agree with you and it is easier now days because now you can spoil them get into a sugar high, overly excited and send them home for their parents to deal with them and calm them back down while you enjoy a nice quite evening

bknecht Loc: Northeast pa

Good words of wisdom, I screwed up many times, fortunately both boys turned out just fine.

Huntm22 Loc: Northern Utah. - West Haven

I know that program pretty well!!

BadFisherman Loc: Lake Whitney, Texas

As I certainly do.