Spiritof27 Loc: Lincoln, CA

John D when did you retire? I'm retired Navy. 68 - 89.

Spiritof27 Loc: Lincoln, CA

Hohn D if you haven't already, read my post The CNO. I think you'll appreciate it. And feel free to steal it and make any modifications you feel necessary.

Big A Loc: Mesa, Arizona

Jeffrey1; Have you ever watched Jeff Dunham with his 'sidekick'
Walter ? As Walter once
remarked - "You don't realize
when you're saying those vows - 'til death do us part' - that you're actually setting a goal' ! I DO
love his humor and his attitude
on marriage, as it strongly resembles mine ! But hey !
That's just me !

Big A Loc: Mesa, Arizona

John; Yes ! The humor here is often off-colored, but those are often the best/funniest jokes !
Considering your military background, I'm surprised that
it bothered you; one would think that you'd be well accustomed
to a bunch of 'salty old dogs'
getting crude/crass with their humor ! Any censorship belongs
at home by monitoring what the kiddies are watching/reading/ listening to, and not what the adults are writing ! I'm glad you got the point, and you're
welcome to chime in any time you're comfortable doing so !

saw1 Loc: nor cal Windsor

Hey JohnD. So glad you understand and will be stayin on. My wife and I just celebrated our 45th on the 11 of Jan. Congrats on your longevity as well. SO many people don't understand the difficulties and the seriousness of your vows when you say I DO. You are making a promise to God to cherish, honor and keep until DEATH due you part. Fellows, that's a long time, Lord willin. I know there are some, BigA, that are better off splitting up. But there are way to many folks that it seems as soon as trouble comes they want to call it quits. When you take your vows there aren't any of them that says it is goin to be easy. You haft to WORK at it if you want your marriage to be successful.
This is a wonderful forum , and yes some of the posts are off color . Some are down right inappropriate, as was brought up to me a few days ago, and when they are we should stand up and say so. There are ways to say something without bein mean and crude. However, most of the posts here are all in good fun and should be taken that way.
Some of the posts take off down a different bunny trail and end up talkin about something else entirely.But that's what conversations do. Anyway, glad you decided to stay with us John. By the way, could you update your profile so we know where you're located? You might be neighbors with some on here. Thanks.Saw1

Justoldjim Loc: JUNCTION CITY, OR.

some times we don't what we have until they are gone

saw1 Loc: nor cal Windsor

Amen Brother.

plumbob Loc: New Windsor Maryland

That's a fact with no denial.

Sitn Loc: Osyka, MS.

Hey Mr. John D. I appreciated your views but remember that there are a lot of us here that have been down the road you are talking about. Just trying to lighten up the scenery around here. I have been cut down several times to where I have given up on any one that I got into contact with. It is lonely when you cannot fit in with others you have the same interest in. I hope you are able to come in with this bunch of guys, whether they are crabs or perch. They are great guys that are having a great time trying to get by. My first wife left me for her boss man where she worked (12 yrs), second passed away (20 yrs), now the third one I ain’t gonna give up. I gotta stick around to keep on a fishin fer da catfish I go after. My daughter from the first one is coming to see me today from Ft Worth, Texas, bout 8 hours from me. I like to take her fishing and let her read the stories these guys write. I hope I have not offended you. (Sitn) here.

seborf

I've never been able to pick a good woman. Even the ones who fish and are good at it. Been married and divorced 2 times. Enjoyed both marriages until I found out that I was only one piece of meat in the stew. Been happier dating and having fun and staying single. I'm afraid to get serious again. Single and loving it! Those of you who have a good woman should thank God an hang on to her. Be good to her and love her like she is the only woman in the world. IMHO.

saw1 Loc: nor cal Windsor

Hey seborf, I agree and I do, or try to. Thanks for remindin us to do that.

Big dog Loc: Bayshore, Long Island, New York

I stayed single until I hit 50. When she caught me I decided she deserved me. I’ll stay true to her. After all, she said it was Love at first sight and was her one true love. To be able to make her dream come true is worth the world.

saw1 Loc: nor cal Windsor

Glad to hear that Big dog. When you find the right one it's worth it all to do your best to hold onto them.

Troutismygame Loc: Charleston Area West Virginia

Don't need the drama! If you want to leave, leave. No need to tell us.

Big dog Loc: Bayshore, Long Island, New York

Well I figure, if I can make someone’s dream come true, it’s worth the effort. I’ve fallen in love plenty of times to no avail. So I figure, if my dreams can’t come true, maybe I can make someone else’s dream come true.
Besides, she’s a great cook, very funny, and warm in bed. I’ve truly come to Love her.